妈妈的话 what my mum said

i妈妈说我们很难理解及捉摸别人的心里到底有什么想法。
my mom told me that its hard to noe n guess what someone is thinking about .
朋友，朋友，朋友
friend,
到底带出什么意义呢？
what it means ?
妈妈说朋友不用搞到这样的地步
mom said that no need to make it unitl so serious
为何呢？
why is it so ?

没有朋友就不会有架吵妈？？
is it that someone who has no fren will nt quarrel with anyone ?
不懂
i don't know
没有朋友的人就不会有那么多沟通，没有那么多的沟通就不会那么容易与人吵架？？
is it that someone who has no fren will nt has that much of communication , less of communication will nt be that easy to have quarrel with someone else ?
不懂
i don't know
我真的不懂
i really don't know

有时候，
sometimes ,
会觉得朋友在我们的生活圈子里扮演着重要的角色
u'll feel that frens take the important characters in ur life
有时候，
sometimes,
朋友却带给我们无数的烦恼，无数的伤痛，无数的误会，无数的怨恨。
frens bring us numerous of trouble, numerous of pain , numerous of misunderstanding , numerous of resentment.
我的脑海里再次浮现出千万个的问号
Once again my mind emerges out of 10 million question mark , i don't understand .

好烦的一切
all these stuff r really frustrated
问题的源头就是友谊的尽头？
is that the source of the problem is the end of the friendship ?
为什么？
why ?
我总是找不到
i can't find back
找不到
can't find back
当初的感觉
the original feeling of our friendship
一切一切开始在改变了
everything changed
不再像以前那样
never like last time
就算勉强，
even if reluctantly,
也不可能像以往一样，
it's nt going to be the same anymore,
大家的心里已经有疤痕
our heart already have scars
不可能磨灭的疤痕！！
scars that will never be erased!!

一条深深的疤，
a deep scars,
让我们破裂。
made us break .

其实，
actually ,
这并不是我想要的结果
this is nt the results that i wish to get
不是！！
NOT !!


演变成这样的问题，
Evolved into such a problem
我想你也不想的
i think thats nt ur wish too
姿薇送我的一句名言：小不忍则乱大谋
chee wei gv me an advice : we should be tolerating with each others to avoid any unwanted problems
的确要好好从中学习
yea , that's rite , we should learn from tis
举个例子：
give an example :
不要一直怀疑，怀疑别人所作的都一定关于你
we should nt always doubting , doubting that one's did should be related to u
其实并不是
actually , it's nt !!
那你却跑去和那人吵起来
but because of ur misunderstanding , u go n have a fight or quarrel with the ppl
你说，是不是小不忍则乱大谋呢？
see , how much serious that problem is ? we should learn to tolerate with each others

偶尔学学忍耐未必是件苦差阿！
once in a while , learn to be patience it wasn't a hard stuff !
忍耐让你占优势
patience let u dominate
忍耐让你挽回有些事情
patience let u to save some problems n things

不过
but
当你的忍耐度到了高超的境界，
when ur patience reached the highest level ,
有时，
sometimes ,
它会让你委屈
it lets u aggrieved
它会让你沮丧
it lets u feel upset
它会让你失去原来的自己
it makes u lose the original you


我宁愿选择当忍耐的学习者，也不愿当忍耐的 expert !!
i prefer to be the learners of patience , but nt to be the expert of patience !!
烦啊！
frustrated !!
烦恼，走开！！
su!! get away , harrassment !!

也许有一天，这一篇部落各不小心被你看见了，
maybe on somedays , u saw my blog accidentally ,
请你不要误会，
hope that u'll nt misunderstanding again ,
我希望你会明白，
i hope that u'll understand,
部落各，是让人抒发心情的一种管道，
writing blog is one of the way to express out one's feeling ,
也是一种电子日记
can oso be known as a electronic diary
我只是说出心中的感觉，心中的想法。。
i just say out my feeling n my opinions..

妈，也许你说得对，
mom , maybe u r right ,
做好自己的本分，
we should do our parts as well as we can ,
我们不应该为自己制造那么多无谓的麻烦，
we shouldn't create so much of unnecessary trouble for ourselves,
我们应该为自己寻找快乐而不是烦恼。。 ^ .^
we should find happiness for ourselves but nt trouble... ^ .^

快乐是自然的，
happiness is a natural thing,
烦恼是自己制造的，
troubles are made by ourselves,
你选择哪一个呢？
so , which 1 u want to choose ?

我会选择快乐，
i prefer happiness ,
请你不要再来剥夺我快乐的权利， 好吗？
pls don't come n deprive my right to get happiness , k ?
谢谢。。
thank you..